Power of the Spoken Word

   As a guest speaker on three radio shows this week I was acutely reminded of the power of the spoken word.  The sweeping reach that a voice can have through a medium like radio—or books—is profound.  Yet equally as profound is the power of the spoken word in a one-to-one conversation.  I remember words people said to me years ago.  The kind words continue to give me encouragement.  The mean words can continue to hurt, if I let them.  You know how brutal criticism and put-downs can be.  And you know how uplifting kind words can be.  Taking this awareness to heart, I strive in my work and life to put people “up.”  I’m not always successful but I consciously do my best.

A kind word is music to the heart

   How can you and I best use the power of the spoken word in our daily lives?  
Here are two simple keys:  

• Thinking before we speak is one.  
  
• Realizing and remembering the power of the spoken word is the other.  

Because once it’s out, what we say can’t be retracted.  We can try to correct it, but the effect has already been released and it’s as hard to control as a genie that’s escaped from its bottle.

   Words can have magical powers.  Here’s why.  The words we speak can become prophecies. Studies have shown that teachers who encourage and believe in their students form students who are more likely to surmount difficulties and ace their studies.  Coaches who inspire their players form teams that win in more ways than one.  Parents who give their kids words of support help to form children who grow to become more confident and positive.  Couples who tell their partners every day how much they love them have better relationships.  Friends who inspire their friends with caring words  foster loyal friendships.  And bosses who give positive and helpful feedback develop faithful, hardworking employees. 

   What words have been most meaningful to you in your life?  What are the kinds of words you want to offer to those around you?  Please share your comments below.